I feel like i am still on my own learning journey. I was stuffed into the trans man category and it never really felt right. I identify as a trans masc soft butch these days but have been afraid to say it in bc of online vitriol. I’m tired of trying to fit in w men who dont want me, and in fact, actively other me.

I am not a woman either, but i feel more woman aligned when i am allowed to be masculine. I’ve always been obsessed with butches and dýkes, probably bc i see myself in them, but relentless bullying has made it hard to get here. So i guess for this week i’ll be visible.

Bless all the fâg dýkes and butches that have helped me see myself in them. Bless all the older lesbians who arent afraid of being themselves.